
I'm a career coach helping ambitious professionals grow and advance in their careers - from getting promoted and landing better job offers to becoming stronger, more effective leaders at work.
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A Childhood of High Expectations
I was born on 28 April 1999 in Sari, a small city in the north of Iran.
My father was a high school teacher and university instructor, and a well-known guitar instructor in our city. My mother stayed at home and took care of me. From early on, my family was deeply focused on my development, especially my education, music, and sports.
My family believed strongly in developing talent and pushed me hard. That pressure shaped me early, building discipline and skill across multiple areas.
In Iran, English isn't really taught properly at school, so I started learning it on my own outside of school. Around the same time, I began learning piano. Music was always around me. My whole family was into it, and I grew up with flamenco playing in the background because of my father. Flamenco is still my favorite music genre.
At the same time, I was very active in sports like basketball, swimming, ping pong, and football, and I won several medals in both individual and team competitions.
One important thing from this period is that I learned to perform under pressure. Anxiety wasn't something unusual, it was part of my normal rhythm.
At school and in my environment, I was known as a smart kid.


Survival Mode & Losing My Identity
These three years were by far the hardest period of my life.
When I was 14, we moved from Sari to Tehran, a city of over 20 million people. The transition was overwhelming. I went from a small, familiar environment to a massive city where I didn't know anyone, and I struggled to adapt or find my place.
I was studying at Sampad, one of the top schools for gifted students in Iran. My classmates were extremely high-performing, many ranking in the top levels of the national university entrance exam, and several eventually got into Sharif University, the best engineering university in the country.
At the same time, there was a huge social gap. Many of my classmates came from wealthy families, while I was from a small city trying to rebuild my life in Tehran. I didn't feel like I belonged. I lost confidence, I struggled to make friends, and I slowly started losing my sense of identity.
My family was also going through a very difficult time. Life in Tehran was financially and emotionally heavy. We were tenants, constantly worried about rising rent and extreme inflation. It felt like we were in survival mode for years, just trying to stay stable in a city that didn't feel welcoming.
Despite all of this, there was still pressure to perform at a high level. But internally, I was overwhelmed, disconnected, and focused more on survival than anything else.
During this period, I made a turning point decision. I left the traditional school path and chose to prepare for the university entrance exam on my own while also trying to work and build financial independence.
At that time, my mindset became heavily focused on one thing: earning money and creating stability. It felt like the only way out of the pressure I was experiencing.

From Survival Jobs to Tech Internships
After the hardest years of my life, around age 17, I started working in almost anything I could find. I didn't limit myself by job type or status. I worked in sales, real estate, social media management, and even participated in questionable opportunities early on just to understand how earning money worked. I often lied about my age to get access to work.
I was extremely persistent. I didn't accept "no" easily and kept applying, talking to people, and looking for opportunities constantly.
At the same time, I was preparing for university entrance exams. I got accepted into university, but not into the level my family had hoped for. I still remember the disappointment at home. But instead of slowing down, I became more determined. I started channeling all my frustration into work and learning.
During this period, I was working 14–15 hours a day, almost without balance—just work, study, and sleep.
I started learning programming, beginning with HTML, CSS, and JavaScript. Within two weeks, I was already applying for internships, even though I wasn't confident I had fully mastered the basics.
I sent around 300 applications with a very simple, poorly written CV. Eventually, I got accepted as an intern at 7030. It was one of the happiest moments of my life.
That experience changed everything for me. I left university and fully stepped into the tech world. I began building my first professional network—people I still know today—and started understanding how the industry actually works.
This period also shaped my communication skills deeply. I became very strong at interviews and negotiation, not because I had credentials, but because I had to learn how to present myself effectively to survive.
Most importantly, I began to understand something fundamental: companies don't hire skills alone, they hire value, clarity, and positioning. And I learned how to start offering that.

Leadership, and Building Teams
I made a decision during this period that gave me financial stability, but came at a serious mental and physical cost.
I started working remotely with multiple companies at the same time, essentially holding up to three full-time roles in parallel.
It almost destroyed my professional reputation, but at that point, I was fully focused on one thing: maximizing income and stability, and I didn't fully consider the long-term consequences.
Financially, it worked. I was earning the equivalent of three strong software engineering salaries while living on less than $200 per month. At my peak, I had records of earning around $10K per month.
This level of income allowed me to achieve major milestones early in life, including buying my first apartment at 21 and my first car. In Iran, property is typically purchased in cash, so this was a significant financial commitment and achievement at that age.
On the surface, I was stable and successful financially.
But internally, I was collapsing. My mental and physical health deteriorated significantly, and I was operating under constant pressure. It was one of the most intense and unsustainable periods of my life.

Getting Married & Building Our Future Together
In September 2022, the situation in Iran changed drastically after the Mahsa Amini protests. The government shut down the internet for about a month, and I suddenly lost my clients from Dubai and the UK because I couldn't stay connected or deliver work.
That was a turning point for me. I realized the life I had built was no longer sustainable.
I made the decision to leave Iran for good.
But there was a major personal challenge. I had been in a long-term relationship with my girlfriend for six years. We had to make a serious decision about our future together. After a lot of discussion, we decided to get married, even though we were still very young, 22 and 23. At first, our families didn't fully believe in it, but over time, with persistence and commitment, we moved forward and I proposed.
At the same time, my career was moving fast. I received three job offers from the Netherlands, England, and Spain. Iran's situation was getting worse, and I didn't have much time to decide.
Eventually, we agreed that I would migrate first, and we would continue building our marriage from a distance.
I moved to Amsterdam first, and after nine months of long-distance, we got married at Istanbul Büyükada. My wife then moved to the Netherlands, and we continued our journey side by side from there.

Personal Development & Coaching & Therapy
After moving to Amsterdam, I went through another major identity shock.
Everything I had learned over the years for survival, extreme hard work, constant pressure, startup mindset, didn't translate in the same way here. The culture was completely different, and I had to relearn how to operate in a new environment.
For the first nine months, I was alone in Amsterdam while waiting for work through iO consultancy to place me with a client. I spent most of my time at home, dealing with anxiety, uncertainty, and a lot of unprocessed emotions. During that same period, my wife Tara was still not with me, which made it even more isolating.
In many ways, it felt like I had returned to the same inner struggles I experienced when we first moved to Tehran as a teenager, but this time I had more awareness, more resources, and more capacity to understand what was happening inside me.
At some point, I made a decision to get help.
I started therapy and coaching, consistently, every week.
That decision changed my life.
For the first time, I experienced real internal peace. I was introduced to communication skills, conflict resolution, MBSR, meditation-based stress reduction, and yoga. I slowly became more comfortable with my emotions and my body.
But the most transformative part was coaching.
Coaching helped me feel heard, understand my thoughts more clearly, and gain direction in my life. It gave me clarity about what I truly wanted, and helped me pursue goals without sacrificing my mental and physical health in the process.
For the first time, I experienced a healthier work-life balance, and I became genuinely happy.
Eventually, Tara joined me in Amsterdam, and our life together became much more stable and joyful.
Through deep reflection, leadership learning, and coaching programs, I also started to discover my own IKIGAI.
That realization became my mission: to support others in building the life they truly want, and to help them become more self-actualized.
It felt like a full circle moment, from years of struggle and survival to a place where I could finally use those experiences to serve others.

Serving Others & Building My Practice
Right now, I'm building my coaching practice, which feels like my true mission.
In the past almost two years, I've coached and mentored over 500 people, both one-on-one and in groups. My work has focused on job hunting, interview preparation, career roadmaps, promotions, career pivots, application discipline, feedback skills, conflict resolution, and more.
I've been recognized multiple times as a Top 10 and Top 1% mentor on ADPList.
Alongside my coaching work, I publish soft skills courses on Udemy, helping developers and professionals grow beyond technical skills into communication, leadership, and career development.
I'm currently working toward my PCC certification with the ICF as part of my continued professional development as a coach.
Today, my focus is on integrating everything I've learned so far through life experience, leadership, and coaching, to help people build lives that feel aligned and meaningful.
